Teasing until it hurts!!
I want my man to tie me up and edge me like this until he decides I’ve had enough, well past the moment when I start begging him to please stop or let me cum.
And then I want him to leave the wand on low, walk around the bed, and fuck my mouth until he cums.
I am fairly new to the BDSM community. I identify as a sub. I have never been in a D/s dynamic before. Should I rely on the guidance or knowledge of my potential Dom for the basics or gather as much info in readings, posts, or other How to before hand?
Abslutely learn and reflect as much beforehand.
You should never rely on someone who has a vested interest in what you learn or how you learn it. For example: someone who’s trying to date you might subconsciously or on purpose steer you toward things they’re doing as “good signs” and away from things other people are doing as “bad signs”. In this manner they can easily:
– manipulate you to believe they’re the be all and end all of domliness/bdsm (check out @toodomforyou )
– isolate you from your friends or family
– steer you away from intra-community conversation which leads to
– isolating you within the bdsm community so no one can tell you this isn’t healthy
– steer you away from other interested parties who might be better suited to your needs because they want you with them
I could go on but I’m sure you get the idea. Basically it is never a good idea to get your information on any topic from someone who has a vested interest in you/you learning about that topic. That’s a biased source and should be treated as such. Do your research and stay safe.
Wholeheartedly support this comment.
-SD
Seriously, some of you dom bloggers are just such a jumble of clichés and bullshit
“Think you can handle the unconfined restraints of my mind? I will only post things I find hot ie naked women only cause dicks are gross and I ain’t gay. Enter at your own risk, a collar awaits those who dare enter. On your knees, sluts, that is forever your place. Serve the patriarchy. Looking for a female live in slave (I’m a MALE! Females only!) to move in immediately, hit me up if you wanna serve.”
DUDE you promised you wouldn’t copy my new bio text.
Although I’ll probably add “Don’t contact me if you’re not ready for the eternal darkness of my depraved and twisted mind, kitten.”
submissions from FEMALES welcome
OH you made it perfect.
Oh wait what about the suit with a red tie in front of a mirror with. No face profile picture
Seriously will you all stop ruining the fuckin surprises.
Don’t forget you have to upload at least six gifs of you playing with a belt.
And the classic: picture from chin down, arms crossed, wearing a poorly-fitted suit.
Oh, and something about being an “alpha” 🙄
This is art 😂😂😂
Dont forget wagging their index finger at the camera☝️
Or holding their hand out to it.
Something about being an alpha wolf and his entire page being a vault of secrets when it’s just white and black porn gifs with skinny white women and white guys with big dicks and his me section has poorly taken close up dick pics with the caption “on your knees slut” or “suck on this princess”
Hi. I’m a Tumblr Dom. Welcome to my Deep Twisted Mind. I wear a suit…cuz it’s scareh. I wear a tie….cuz it’s scareh. Think you can handle the heat? I take all my pictures in black & white…. cuz it’s SCAREH
I love the female form. All females. But my blog shows no diversity whatsoever. Check out my cool signature I leave on every photo, and if I deleted your caption who cares-it’s not my fault my followers don’t want to read. Male | NOT GAY
If your blog contains any of these above attributes you need to take a hard look at yourself because clearly we’re all laughing at you
@toodomforyou relevant post 😁
HELLO CUNTS. WELCOME TO THE BLACKNESS OF MY DEPRAVED AND TWISTED SOUL. ARE U READY TO SUBMIT TO A TRUE ALPHA? KIK ME AT TWISTEDDARKMASTERSIR696969 AND SEND NUDES IF U THINK U ARE WORTHY OF BEING MY SLAVE 4 LIFE BUT BE WARNED I AM AN EXTREME HARDCORE SADIST ANAL ONLY DARK MASTER DOMINANT MAN AND I ONLY ACCEPT SUBMISSION FROM TRUE SUBS WHO KNOW THERE PLACE SO BE READY TO BEND OVER AND TAKE IT SLUTS
-LMS
Jesus, just imagine how needy a girl has to be if THIS is enough to make her cum.
What does it take to get to that point.
And how evil it is to make her stop and not cum, even then.
Living under control
No I’m not talking about the loving care of a Dominant. I’m talking about the control of an abuser.
My husband spent years slowly eroding all my confidence, he started by making me feel that every cent that was spent was for the “wrong reason” that somehow I was using funds for my own self rather than the family.
I would ask him to go out socially with my friends and that was never an option however his friends there was an expectation that we would go no matter the situation. I had been a very social person.
He began to bad talk my family, and actually succeeded in making me choose him over them.
We stopped going out socially, I was not able to see friends or family. I was no longer permitted to go to church.
If I decided to try and stand up to him, I received the silent treatment in the beginning it was only maybe for a day or two as our relationship continued it was nothing to go weeks and at times months without any communication.
The name calling began shortly after, and was cutting like a knife was being thrust into me.
Sex was an expectation and I was even told that if I didn’t give him sex that it was what put him in a bad mood, that for him to be in a good mood and treat me well, it was only right that I should give him sex.
He gained control of all our finances, and every single time things went bad in some way, it was my fault for not being interested or willing to help.
I told him that I was an abused wife, his reaction was that he had never laid a hand on me, that he had never struck me and that no one could ever love me as much as he loved me, that he had only ever wanted what is right for me and that he loves me….. Apparently grabbing and shaking is not abuse, nor verbal, or financial control.
Did he ever hit me, no, did I feel safe NO. Did I shut down and withdraw from not only him but the world…. YES.
If any of these things are happening to you, this is abuse. ”I love you” at times can come from the most dangerous source of all.
BOOST. This is what psychological abuse looks like.
BDSM in a nutshell…
During this weekend extreme session there was one
scene that really represents the whole idea of BDSM. I really wish I
had a picture of it.It was a 30 hour brainwashing / intense
control session with two doms (or in the words of the victim: the
waterboarding wasn’t the most intense part), and we brought her down
to the basement. And she was blindfolded and after abut 24 hours of
intense psychological and physical pressure a bit shaky.She
could only hear us yelling at her “move you fucking whore… get
your ass down here” and guiding her a little bit. What she couldn’t
see was that we both had our arms around her, one a step before her,
one a step above her. And super aware and ready because she was a bit
shaky. Super caring and protective and yet at the same time keeping
up the scenario for her…BDSM in a nutshell…
For
all the domly doms who think if you’re caring you can’t be hard.I was totally intimidated, but never afraid of being let down by both sirs @vivehypno & @tellherthings
Thank you for taking care of me so well.
Also, a positive one for @toodomforyou .
We love hearing these positive stories.
This is exactly what we mean when we say that you can still be Dominant, rough, kinky, and intense with your partner while still prioritizing their safety and well-being above all else.
Take note.
-SD
Anyone else just, scroll through the porn side of tumblr and briefly mistake the ads for porn, then get confused as to how it’s porn?
SubbyLittleKitten 