I post a lot of porn because, well, let’s face it: we all love porn. But the sexual aspect forms such a small part of the whole that I sometimes feel like I’m doing it a disservice with my blog.
Dominance is being there for her.
Dominance is working through her meltdowns.
Dominance is accepting her, especially when she won’t accept herself.
Dominance is being asked for the millionth time if you love her.
Dominance is tucking her in at night.
Dominance is telling her no.
Dominance is quieting her demons.
Dominance is being her bastion of strength.
Dominance is shrugging off her anger and frustration when you do things for her own good.
Dominance is encouraging her.
Dominance is comforting her i the middle of the night when she’s had a nightmare.
I’ve never understood why some doms want their subs, to be wrapped in every inch of their being. I love to be worshipped as much as the next, but I don’t want my sub to feel weak when I’m not there, because they start relying on me, and get dependant on me.
I want to raise a sub with a fragile soul to then be able to stand alone, to not take anyone’s shit, to become if needed, hell fire. I want to give them all the tools, and strength the need to, become a wolf in an instant, if they feel threatened. To be able to protect themselves, and whoever else.
I love their submission to me, but I want to mend them into the strength of a 100 dragons. I want my submissive to fly without me, to be confident, brave, and courageous. I want them to feel fucking powerful, when I’m not there.. as well when they are right beside me.
It’s okay if you’re scared,
That means you have something to lose.
And if you don’t want to lose it,
Even if you’re terrified,
Get back on your feet,
Never surrender.
Your opponent may be,
Bigger, stronger, faster, smarter,
But honey…
They don’t put wolves in the circus…
Show them your fangs,
Never surrender.
Never give in.
Quite possibly the most heart warming thing I’ve ever read
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I think heterosexual female dominants grasp this so-called paradox more easily because, at a physical level, men are (on average) stronger than women, whereas culture teaches men they should be stronger, make more money, be better in a fight, hornier, and lots of other bullshit.
Done right IMHO, your submissive will become (or already is) tougher than you are. After all, you’re training them.
I think I’m going to have to cum soon. The denial high has left me, replaced by constant vulnerability and histrionics. Can’t wait til Daddy can let me cum.
Mmm, I like the paradox within: the thought that the only reason you should cum is to enjoy the denial.
That feeling of being horny as hell. Trapped in your own body. Desperate to cum. Knowing He is the only way it is going to happen & he isn’t ready to let you yet. That’s what this picture means to me.
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