lavenderbutts:

Come on baby boy, thrust your hips, more, push back, deeper, fuck yourself on my finger while I work on your little cock, caressing it, stroking it, milking it like a horny little slut like you deserves.

I love listening to your moans, baby, louder now, I want everyone to hear you, to know that you’re my owned little whore and that every part of you is being used right now.

I can see your eyes rolling back, you’re moaning, drooling, you can’t even speak anymore, my sweet…that’s it, cum for me, baby boy. Cum now, you earned it.

You’re such a good boy.

denyingherorgasm:

I don’t care what you have to do, or how much of your body you have to surrender control of.

Your
mind cannot possibly focus on maintaining your dignity and fighting off
the urge to cum at the same time. That is completely okay. There are
priorities in your world, and doing as you’re told is at the top of the
list.

I told you to keep your hand moving and to maintain that edge. I
didn’t tell you to look like a lady with class, or to conduct yourself
like a real woman. I ask a lot of you, but I know you’re not capable of
those things. I won’t ask you for what you can’t give me.

This is what you were born to do, this is what you are capable of. So just sit there and edge for me like a good girl.

You
don’t even have to listen for me to tell you to stop. I’ll take your
arm and pull it away from you when I decide that you’re finished.

So just focus on your own little world while I allow the fantasy to last. I’m enjoying the show.

hornydeniedgirl:

Perfect fucktoys are made, not born. Girls who lack the self-discipline to stick to their exercise regimen will get help in order to achieve the muscle strength necessary to perform their duties at the highest levels.

Of course, they may not appreciate the help they get as they should, the ungrateful brats that they are.

That’s ok. They will come to appreciate it after a while, when they start seeing results.

And just maybe, this experience will teach them to complete their assigned tasks unassisted.

Punishments

instructor144:

pleasurewhore:

In response to a message from a follower about how to punish a long distance submissive… Many of these punishments are suitable for both RL and LDRs. The first thing is to make sure that the she knows she is still cared for and appreciated, and that the punishment is not because you are angry (on that note never punish a submissive until you are ready to set aside any uncontrolled anger). Secondly, make sure the punishment fits the crime. Third, many submissives are masochists, so if you’re going to use pain as a punishment make sure it’s a variety of pain she doesn’t care for. Lastly, ensure that when the punishment is complete that you let her know that this is behind you now. That she is loved, and that you are ready to move forward. This is especially important in a LDR.

Lines- It’s a classic for a reason. Choose the lines carefully. There is a magical effect when you write something over and over again… you begin to believe it. I highly recommend. “My pleasure belongs to Sir, and I will not steal from him,” over “I’m sorry for being a disobedient whore.” I think it’s easy to see the psychological difference.

Kneeling- Sometimes all it takes is to literally bring a sub to her knees to remind her why obedience is important. Extended times kneeling are uncomfortable. Nakedness is a given, and kneeling on rice is a classic pain punishment that’s said to be very effective.

Snapping rubber-bands- Long distance pain punishments are indeed possible. Wrap a large rubber band around a thigh, pull it back several inches, release and repeat.

Corner time- Kneeling, standing, or holding ankles while facing the wall can be a very effective punishment. Being alone, in silence with the fact that you’ve disappointed your Dominant is a very powerful thing. Nakedness is a given, and for added difficulty having her use only her nose to hold a coin against the wall is much harder than it sounds.

Extra chores- Punishments are not meant to be fun, and this one never is.

Clamping- Another long distance approved pain punishment. Being clamped while doing chores, kneeling, etc. is an uncomfortable reminder. You want to be sure to separate this from playtime. Labia clamping is another option to consider.

Early bedtimes/restrictions on social media, TV- There is of course an element of trust here, but social media sites are easy enough to check for activity

Mouth soaping- Another classic for a reason. A bar of ivory soap in the mouth can border on torturous.

Taking away panties/bra- This sort of thing depends entirely on the submissive. Some women are perfectly comfortable being without panties or a bra. Others think it’s unspeakable.

Essays- Having to put into words how you failed to fulfill your commitments is a very serious punishment for most submissives.

Figging- Figging, for those who don’t know is when you insert peeled ginger root into your bottom. This is a type of pain some masochists do not find enjoyable. The bonus here is that unlike other methods such as using capsaicin, icy-hot, etc, ginger root will cause a pain reaction but will not damage tissue.

Plugging- Plugging out of a sexual context, or for extended amounts of time, can be uncomfortable, and embarrassing. Add in a bit of edging, a trip to the grocery store, or sleeping with the plug inside if you’re up for it.

Denial- Be sure to edge and torture her as fits the transgression, or your mood.

Self-deprecation- Having a submissive refer to herself only as ’this forgetful whore,’ or in the third person for a set amount of time.

There are many more not included with the list, however I think this is a good starting point. Over time you will see which things are most effective for your sub.

LDR punishments should be verified by video, picture, voice etc. This is not a matter of trust only. It’s important that a Doms presence is felt during times of punishment, and your desire to verify will help her understand the importance of obedience and your commitment to making sure she follows through.

A final note…
Ignoring your submissive, or withdrawing attention is NEVER a suitable punishment. Just don’t. You’ve asked this person to enter a relationship centered around their reliance on you, and denying them access to you is damaging.

Solid list.

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