I am fairly new to the BDSM community. I identify as a sub. I have never been in a D/s dynamic before. Should I rely on the guidance or knowledge of my potential Dom for the basics or gather as much info in readings, posts, or other How to before hand?

toodomforyou: beloved-bug: instructor144: Abslutely learn and reflect as much beforehand. You should never rely on someone who has a vested interest in what you learn or how you learn it. For example: someone who’s trying to date you might subconsciously or on purpose steer you toward things they’re doing as “good signs” and away fromContinue reading “I am fairly new to the BDSM community. I identify as a sub. I have never been in a D/s dynamic before. Should I rely on the guidance or knowledge of my potential Dom for the basics or gather as much info in readings, posts, or other How to before hand?”

toodomforyou: 23skidood: diaperfairyelle: kittysmashh: littlemisfit: accarahara: lavender-ish: merrrpppp: trans-human-ist: unthrifty–loveliness: unthrifty–loveliness: an-angry-wolf: themonstercalls: diaryofatruesubmissive: themonstercalls: thechronicmasochist: themonstercalls: dontgetwisewithme: unthrifty–loveliness: Seriously, some of you dom bloggers are just such a jumble of clichés and bullshit “Think you can handle the unconfined restraints of my mind? I will only post things I find hot ie naked womenContinue reading

BDSM in a nutshell…

toodomforyou: tell-me-things-please: vivehypno: During this weekend extreme session there was one scene that really represents the whole idea of BDSM. I really wish I had a picture of it. It was a 30 hour brainwashing / intense control session with two doms (or in the words of the victim: the waterboarding wasn’t the most intenseContinue reading “BDSM in a nutshell…”

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