sex-obsessed-lesbian: somehowbreathtaking: valdrake: piraterey: lemme tell you i am so fucking tired of angsty vampires. its enough.  give me a newly-turned twenty-something vampire who hears about their newfound immortality and is like “thank god,” then proceeds to invest in some promising startups and fucks off to take a nap for two decades give me a vampireContinue reading

magicwandsworth: bladetiger: ceruleancynic: jumpingjacktrash: kosmonauttihai: rollerskatinglizard: ceekari: stayhungry-stayfree: This is a really helpful page in my CBT textbook for tackling some of the maladaptive beliefs we often hold. The first column lists the rules and assumptions we often may tell ourselves, while the second column is a more functional belief. Just thought I would passContinue reading

It’s hard talking to other people about kinky junk because my partner and I don’t technically have a safeword, per se. We don’t engage in con noncon or anything like that, so just ‘no,’ ‘wait,’ ‘stop,’ even just an uncomfortable noise is enough of a cue for us to halt. THOSE are our safewords, but people act like we ‘must not really be doing kinky stuff’ because we aren’t calling out something like ‘cranberry!!’ Like, buddy. 😒 Wtf.

instructor144: toodomforyou: toodomforyou: That’s the thing, anon. For you, “no” or “stop” ARE your safewords. If it helps, I’ve been in this lifestyle for going on 13 years now and @belovedsangi and I don’t have “safewords” either, because, like you, we don’t do CNC, so “no”, “stop” or “red” are safewords for us too. AContinue reading “It’s hard talking to other people about kinky junk because my partner and I don’t technically have a safeword, per se. We don’t engage in con noncon or anything like that, so just ‘no,’ ‘wait,’ ‘stop,’ even just an uncomfortable noise is enough of a cue for us to halt. THOSE are our safewords, but people act like we ‘must not really be doing kinky stuff’ because we aren’t calling out something like ‘cranberry!!’ Like, buddy. 😒 Wtf.”

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