How is consent honored if an aspect of submission is doing something when one does not want to? I guess what I mean is how is consent effectively withdrawn without the sub or Dom seeming as they “just don’t want to do it today”? Or, can it be at all without it seeming this way?

instructor144: submissive-seeking: instructor144: boy-kai: instructor144: i-could-be-the-walrus: This question is kinda bumming me out because they are equating ‘honoring consent’ with ‘a person has to always want to do <thing>.’ Now, in terms of sexy times, especially *vanilla* sexy times, those two things are synonymous. And @instructor144‘s answer certainly covers the practical reality of most D/s relationships inContinue reading “How is consent honored if an aspect of submission is doing something when one does not want to? I guess what I mean is how is consent effectively withdrawn without the sub or Dom seeming as they “just don’t want to do it today”? Or, can it be at all without it seeming this way?”

Design a site like this with WordPress.com
Get started