7 RED

instructor144:

A PM from Follower @realkcsunshine

“I like your number system for pain but I would probably add in a color too because I might say 7 and the person may think they need to stop or
ease up. So for example 7-Green would mean it hurts but I like it.
10-fucking red would mean it hurts too bad and needs to stop. Just what I
envision in my mind.”

This is fucking brilliant. This adds a whole new dimension to the “calibration” process for assessing pain levels. For some people, a “7″ might be excruciating and needs to be stopped at once (so, a “7 Red”). For another person, with a different tolerance for and craving for pain, a “7″ might be excruciating but they are loving it (so, a “7 Green”). I hope my Followers like this idea as much as I do, and use it to dial in their impact play for the maximum enjoyment and benefit of both partners.

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