Teach Her More Than How To Serve

pleasurewhore:

erotic-endeavors:

*I will be using “she/her” when talking about the submissive
in this writing. I do acknowledge and respect the fact that not all submissives
are female*

So you’ve got a submissive. As a Dominant, it’s easy to
remember teaching her how to do the things that please you. She knows when and
where to assume certain positions. She knows how you like to be addressed. She’s
got everything down she needs to please you and serve you properly.

But what can you do to help better herself for her own well-being?

-Does she seem to stress often? Have her
look into stress relief breathing, meditation, yoga, etc.

-Ask her what goals
she has outside of your dynamic and ask yourself what you can do to help her
achieve those goals.

-Does she know how to take care of herself during times
that you may not be available? What kind of self-care can she engage in when she’s feeling down?

-Does she make poor financial decisions? Help her develop a budget.

Do whatever you can to help her grow as a person, not just as your submissive.

^^^ This is care-giving. This is caring for a person as a whole and knowing no matter what filthy, depraved things they do for you that they are still more than a fucktoy put on earth for your amusement.